There are some people that you can tell they are inherently good but talking with them is annoying and it drains you emotionally. This happens because,
they talk a lot,
do not listen,
never ask open-ended questions,
drag conversation too much until it dries out,
dwell on shallow topics,
tell unfunny jokes,
etc…
Well guess what? If you want to sacrifice your precious time to listen to someone like this just because he/she is inherently-good, surprise surprise you may be a good person too! However, learn to cherish your time and your emotional state.
It is counterproductive to identify with a negative trait using sentences like, “yes, but this is just who I am,” or “yes, but people from my ethnicity tend to do this thing a lot.”
